What’s exciting you the most?
A practical guide to what’s exciting you the most? and why it matters for relationship-driven professionals.
There is a conversation that most professionals avoid having — with themselves. It is not about who to add to their network. It is about who already belongs there and what they are doing about it.
What’S Exciting You The Most?
Here is what this looks like in practice. You meet someone at a conference, a client meeting, or through a mutual connection. The conversation goes well. You exchange contact information. And then — nothing. Not because you did not care, but because your system failed you. There was no reminder, no follow-up prompt, no mechanism to turn a good conversation into an ongoing relationship.
This is the most common failure mode in professional networking. It is not a people problem. It is a systems problem. And it has a straightforward solution: treat your relationships with the same intentionality you bring to your work.
Making It Work
Start with your existing network. You do not need more contacts — you need better engagement with the ones you already have. Identify your top fifty relationships. These are the people who have referred you business, opened doors, or simply shown up consistently in your professional life.
Now ask yourself: when was the last time you reached out to each of them without needing something? If the answer is more than three months for any of them, you have work to do.
- Set a cadence. Not every relationship needs the same frequency. Your top tier might warrant monthly check-ins. Your broader network might need quarterly touchpoints. The specific intervals matter less than the consistency.
- Use a system. A spreadsheet works. A dedicated relationship CRM works better. The tool matters less than the habit of tracking who needs attention and when.
- Keep it human. A quick text asking how someone is doing will always outperform a templated email. Personalization is not a marketing tactic — it is basic respect.
None of this is complicated. The best relationship-building advice fits on a napkin: care about people, stay in touch, and do not let the good ones drift away. The challenge is building the systems and habits that make this sustainable at scale.
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Whether you use a spreadsheet, a notes app, or a purpose-built relationship CRM like Relatable, the important thing is that you have a system. Your network is too valuable to manage by memory alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
What should I track about my professional contacts?
At minimum: when you last connected, what you discussed, and what is happening in their professional and personal life. This is not about surveillance — it is about caring enough to remember. When you reference something specific from a previous conversation, it signals genuine interest and builds trust faster than any networking tactic.
How do I rebuild a professional relationship that has gone cold?
Start with honesty. A simple message like 'It has been too long and that is on me — how are things going?' is more effective than pretending no time has passed. Most people appreciate the candor and are happy to reconnect. The awkwardness is almost always in your head, not theirs.
Do I need a CRM for personal relationship management?
You do not need one, but it helps significantly once your network exceeds about fifty active relationships. A purpose-built relationship CRM like Relatable organizes contacts into priority tiers with engagement cadences, so you never lose track of who needs attention. Without a system, the urgent will always crowd out the important.
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